My hubby has been talking about his fantasy since before we were married, and that was five years ago. He wants to see me with another man, and later with another couple where we full-swap.

It has been a re-occurring topic in our fantasies for so long the thought now turns me on, and now we both want the fantasy to become a reality. But we don't know how to begin.

So, I would like to pose the question: "How do you find the right people?"

First, where do you find them? Is it better "online" or in a local club. We live in Louisiana and there are a few clubs close by that cater to the on-site parties. I am curious to the response.

Second, Is it better to have the unknown, or a person that is known to both of you. Are friends a good idea?

Ms. Wildbr

Hi
The wife and I have been playing for 3 years now, sounds a lot but in fact we have met 4 cpls and 2 single guys, the guys we played with but only 2 of the cpls.
We joined a adult site, where we chat to others. If we see a cpl who sound nice we send an email see if they maybe interested. Once we are convinced they are genuine we arrange to meet for a drink, strictly no playing on the first meeting is our rule. If they girls are happy and we all get on then we meet to play.

Hope that helps